Is love simply a feeling or matter of hard work? Why does it cause so much concern?
Everyone is talking about it… every book, play, song, magazines are full of how to get it and how to keep it.
For many people they want to be taken over by love…. and how wonderful it is… I remember those heady days when I would fall in love a th the drop of a hat.
It is an ecstatic feeling to have the love for someone and to have them return it. Unfortunately it does not seem to last at that intensity we seem to long for.
Many people will do anything to keep that going… alcohol and other drugs are great at heightening our senses. These are not realisatic modes of attaining sense of self orf delf or even a long lasting sense of being in touch with other people.
We seem to want the promise of these feelings. We ask our partner to give that to us.
Couples counselling helps you discover why these myths make your relationships difficult.